Tom McSherry
Psychology

Google reviews and psychology: the ethics and the practicalities

Tom McSherry

Tom McSherry

18 September 2025 · 7 min read

Google reviews genuinely help a psychology practice - they build trust and they lift your local ranking - but they sit on top of an ethical minefield that most businesses never have to think about. Client confidentiality and professional guidelines make simply "asking for reviews" far more delicate for a therapist than for a plumber. The good news is you can build a genuine profile carefully. It just takes a lighter touch and clear boundaries.

One thing up front: I am an SEO consultant, not a lawyer or your registration board. Nothing here is legal or regulatory advice. Your professional body and code of ethics are the authority on what you may and may not do, and you should treat their guidance as the final word over anything I say about ranking.

Why reviews matter, even for a therapist

Reviews do two jobs. First, they are a strong local ranking signal - the quantity, quality, and recency of reviews on your Google Business Profile influence whether you show up in the map results. Second, and arguably more important for a clinic, they are social proof at the exact moment someone anxious is deciding whether to make contact. I cover the mechanics in Google reviews for clinics; the principles hold, but the way you gather them has to be adapted for mental health.

The ethical tension

The obvious problem is confidentiality. A public review confirms that the reviewer was your client. Even a glowing five-star review can inadvertently disclose that someone sought help, which is exactly the kind of information they may not want public. On top of that, many professional codes are wary of soliciting testimonials from current or recent clients, because the therapeutic relationship carries a power imbalance that makes a request hard to refuse freely.

A review is public. The fact that someone was your client should always be their choice to reveal, never yours.

So the tension is real: the thing that helps your visibility is the thing your ethics ask you to handle with the most care. The answer is not to give up on reviews. It is to lower the pressure and widen the pool.

Careful ways to build a genuine profile

Within whatever your professional body allows, here are approaches that keep the client in control:

  • Make it easy and passive, not personal. A small "reviews welcome" line and link on your website or an emailed receipt lets people volunteer without a face-to-face ask.
  • Never ask a current client directly in session. The power imbalance makes a spoken request feel like something they have to do.
  • Consider who else can review you honestly - GPs and other referrers, colleagues you have collaborated with, supervisees, or people who attended a workshop or public talk.
  • Remind clients they can review the service without disclosing details. A line about professionalism, ease of booking, or the space itself is genuine and reveals nothing clinical.
  • Let time and distance help. Someone who finished therapy months ago and chooses to leave a review is on much safer ethical ground than a current client asked mid-treatment.

What to avoid

Do not offer incentives of any kind - fake or paid reviews breach Google's rules and your ethics at once, and they are usually obvious. Do not write reviews yourself or ask staff to. Do not screenshot a private thank-you message and post it as a testimonial without explicit, informed consent. And do not pressure anyone: a review given to please their therapist is not a free choice.

Handle the occasional bad review calmly

You will, at some point, get a review you feel is unfair - and a therapist is especially constrained in how they can respond, because you cannot confirm someone was a client, let alone discuss them. The instinct to defend yourself in detail has to be resisted. A short, professional, non-specific reply is usually all you can and should do. A single poor review costs less than most people fear, as I explain in what a 1-star review really costs you; a steady flow of genuine ones dilutes it naturally.

Build slowly, keep the client in control, and check anything you are unsure about with your professional body first. A small profile of honest reviews, gathered ethically, is worth far more than a large one you had to compromise your standards to get.

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